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Released: 01/02/2014

ISBN: 9781783061280

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Why Men REALLY Cheat

The Psychological Secrets of Male Infidelity


For the first time, discover the traits and characteristics of every type of man you have ever met. No matter what your opinion of men is, you will never look at them the same way again!

Prepare for the most intriguing, entertaining and informative book you will read this year. Why Men REALLY Cheat: The Psychological Secrets of Male Infidelity is an enthralling blend of captivating narrative combined with up-to-date and relevant psychological expertise. Beginning with the daily things we all take for granted the book delves deeper into this burning question, progressing at a thrilling rate. Addressing the number one relationship killer that has tormented women for centuries. It has even baffled some men about their own behaviour.

Stewart provides extracts from real interviews and questionnaires with hundreds of men, providing the psychological understanding behind the excuses. Why Men REALLY Cheat; the new ‘Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus’ or ‘He’s Just Not That Into You’. A captivating read that you will have trouble putting down. It is a must-have for every woman or man; whether currently single, dating or in a long-term relationship.

Friday February 7th 2014
The Official launch of Why Men REALLY Cheat - Waterstones, Deansgate, Manchester

Monday February 10th 2014
Appearance on BBC Woman's Hour (Radio 4) with Jane Harvey -

Tuesday February 11th 2014
Appearance on Australia's Number One Breakfast TV Show - Sunrise

Wednesday February 12th 2014
The Why Men Really Cheat Seminar - G Casino, Parrs Wood Complex, Didsbury, Manchester


Hello Clitheroe

BBC Women's Hour

The Times

Body + Soul

Look Magazine, February 20

Fabulous Magazine (The Sunday Sun)

Manchester Evening News

Independent, 31 January

Huffington Post, 12 February

Female First, 5 February

Metro UK, 30 January

Metro UK, 30 January

Femail, 30 January

So perhaps the title sounds vague. You're probably thinking 'Not another one!' Whatever your thoughts or opinions this book definitely puts the topic 'cheating' into a new perspective.

Finally a book that reveals a man's perspective written by an author willing to reveal the truth to which men will never admit to. The truth is not 'ALL' men but 'what type of man?'....... Remember that when reading and your definitely one step ahead of any relationship.....

A MUST READ!!!!!!!!!

by Micci

I have been lucky to read a sample of what this book , cannot wait to buy my copy
And read more , if only every female could read this before starting a relationship
We would see how and why men think so differently , maybe are choice in boyfriends and future husbands could be a better one and save us from future heartbreak .

by Rowena

I've been fortunate enough to read the samples and then the whole book. He's definitely done his homework and what's better is that he's managed to combine real characters and situations in an engrossing story that's interwoven with the theories that you can actually understand. I wasn't sure what to expect but had myself re-reading and questioning and then wondering what type am I. Read it! Read it! Read it! It's the start of more great conversations

by Michael Salmon

I have read the sample of 'Why Men Really Cheat' and I highly recommend this as a must read!! Not only was this very well written but it had me wanting more. What I liked most was the way in which it was written. It IS the question that a lot of women I know have been asking. Why do men cheat? This will sound cliche but it's true. And females this book may just have all the answers to the questions we want to know and more.

by T-Ann

As a Psychologist with a research background in Social Psychology, I expected this book to be another pop psychology book offering no depth or genuine understanding of the complex issue of cheating behaviour among men. After reading the book sample, I realized not only did this book provide an objective view on the subject of infidelity among men, it also explained it in a scientific yet easy to understand and follow approach.Why men REALLY cheat is an Informative yet entertaining book which is surprisingly funny as some of the characters resemble people most of us have met in our lives. I think this book is a must read for both men and women. Enjoy!

by Rawan Ibrahim

I've been lucky enough to have a sneak peak at this book and WOW what a read! Not your usual Men Vs Women book, but an insightful view on the Male pshyce and the reasoning behind cheating, where it stems from why it's still around! You won't be able to put this book down, man or woman! I are you not to try and find out what 'type' of man you are, you have or you know!! Enjoy.

by Paula McEntee

I have had the chance to read a short extract from this book and must say, I was totally captured! As an avid reader, I expected the book to repeat the same stereotypical cliches and examples which I have read over and over again. However, this is well written, funny but most importantly; we all know someone whom we can relate to in all of the books' characters. Think sex in the city meets knowledge! I felt empowered and a little wiser! And I totally love that the author is male and that the book is based on real life research. I cannot wait to read the rest of the book!

by Serina Khan

Since I had the chance to flip through a few pages
I started having secret debates on private messages
alot of men don't want to interact publicly about it
but they had a lot to say, some were just funny and some
reacted very personal and did not want to read the truth
coming from a male Author that did research this topic
before publishing. I went through a few of the pages and I'm
so eager to read it to the end! It's not saying every
man cheat it's just telling you the reason why men
some men cheat , I recommend to both male and female

Get a copy!!!!

by Kayce

Well what can I say...
I really enjoyed reading 'Why Men Really Cheat', I simply couldn't put it down. I enjoyed more of the psychological theory behind why the male gender acts the way they do and how schemas are built and then reinforced. I must confess I will have to re-read this book there's a lot to take in and I'm sure I will learn something new each time.
Fascinating read Martyn you should be very proud of yourself well done. x

by Jane

Wow! Just finished reading Why Men Really Cheat and my brain sure got a work out! I think I am quite an intuitive person but I certainly learned a lot about the behaviour patterns and thought processes of men, oops old habits die hard I should have said the 27 different types of men! I particularly liked the way the book changes from the feeling of reading a "girly type" of book to the psychology view. At times it felt as if the author was reading my mind, it was quite erie how he had second guessed what thoughts it would provoke....
No matter what your views on cheating there is something to be gained from reading this book even if it just confirms or changes what you think.

by Angie

Martyn Stewart

Martyn Stewart is from Manchester, England. During his college education, an unforseen incident unexpectedly led him towards Psychology and the subject has been integral to his life ever since.

He has over fifteen years of experience in the field of psychology focusing especially in human relationships and cognitive psychology. During this time, he has conducted studies into interpersonal attraction and the factors influencing relationship breakdown. Currently working as Head of Psychology at one of the world’s top international colleges, he is constantly using his experiences and knowledge of diversity to inspire the next generation.

In his spare time Martyn is a keen sportsman, especially football and also holds an interest in acting, music, history, music and films. He enjoys travelling and taking weekend city breaks. He also wants to learn a new language. He has contributed significantly to his local area via youth work and teaching.

His latest project, ‘Why men REALLY cheat: The Psychological Secrets of Male Infidelity’, has produced a series of successful seminars culminating with the production of this book. The research findings from men all over the United Kingdom are delivered here in an informative but remarkably refreshing and entertaining manner; the hallmark of all of his enterprises.

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